by David Todd McCarty | Wednesday, December 2, 2015
I wrote the following piece almost ten years ago. It says as much about who I was then as it does about the changes in the world since then.
I was raised with the firm belief that honesty was a thing to be valued. Telling the truth was the most important thing a man could do. It was, in fact, what separated the good people from the bad, the honorable from the dishonorable. But over the course of the last 38 years, I’ve begun to change my mind.
The truth, I have discovered, is highly overrated.
When you’re young, it’s acceptable to tell an inappropriate truth. Sometimes, it’s even considered cute.
“What’s wrong with your face,” you may ask a severely burned man at the bank.
The question “Are you a man or a woman?” is directed at the unfortunate looking person in the checkout lane at the grocery store.
Even the cable repairman might be greeted at the door with the news, “My Mommy isn’t wearing any panties.”